Hi Judela, I'm sorry you were upset by something that was posted before. This is a support forum and it is always best to think before we post whether something is likely to be helpful to the forum member. It is good that you returned though..
These are the questions I posted above..
Also, it would be helpful to have some more context about your marriage? Do you have kids? Kids together? Has it been a long marriage? First marriage for you both? OP involved? It helps us better help you, with tailored advice, if we know a little more about your situation.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus