I dunno G...

I think that you are working on a relationship here...

The good is, that when you asked, he was honest and forthcoming about feelings, and he needs.

The same as you were by asking...

Sounds like communication to me..




Were you hurt more by YOUR trigger about the holiday ??

Or more by, that he wasn't ready YET...???


Guys have feelings about these things, we don't always express them well....

But have a little Faith in what you are trying to build with him..

Maybe it's more about his Family, than it is you ??


If he is worth it, find a way to work through it...