I understand your fear, but I don't think prodding him and constantly reminding him of you is the way to go here..actually it is better to leave him wondering a little...and better for you to get the focus more off him and onto you..
Can I ask what you found so difficult about the feedback when you were previously posting? As LiM said - this is probably a good place to start. Also, some background into the marriage would help too..and then we can better help you
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