How very interesting that XH's patient thought you were his new lady friend! He does seem very confused and I can see how he can seem adrift in his life as well especially as he was married to you for so many years. You were a huge part of his life and now you aren't in it anymore that's a huge hole to fill.
The dinner in the old factory and entertainment sounds like fun. It's good that you are getting back to what you love!
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')