As for what I am doing now, I got a job, joined a gym and am considering dating even though my heart is not in it.
If your heart is not in it, then why in the holy sh*t would you even consider it? Look, point blank. Wife left me, I dated, it lead to me leading people on and then that was just a whole other realm of sh*t. Judela, clean your self up first, get your self good with being with your self. And then when you think you are good with your self, wait 6 months. Then you can date. Don't fall for that society Bull Sh*t that you are weird if you are single or that you "need" somebody or that "get on the next horse and ride" sh*t. Woman up,this sh*t is going to get ugly and hard, and I mean for the old you inside what will be the new you. Put in the work and the work will put itself into you. Flake out and catch others dudes, drinks or whatevers...that ain't fixing you.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
