I gave you a huge list of GAL activities, remember? I'm a woman. So how's that figure into your equation?
LITB is a man and he said you were resisting suggestions to change your viewpoint, and you are resisting them. You only hear the "please change" feedback from women, and it seems to come across to you as nagging and complaining...so you dismiss it or ignore it.
Maybe that's how you treated your wife's feedback, you are literally STILL blaming her.
I think your dismissive attitude towards feedback from women Is revealing. I just feel as if You tune us out.
When you say people here are telling you that you were a "jerk or idiot as a h" -- I looked to see where those words were used but I could not find them
No one said that...
Can you see that how you spin feedback you don't like, could be incredibly harmful to the communication you so stridently complain of?
In other words, even if she had written it all down in a card, you might well have dismissed it as "just her complaining" - b/c she stayed.
I hope you'll someday look at why you handle feedback from women,
so differently than feedback from men even when it is so similar.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
