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We did go through quite a few months of MC.... C signed off in us and we worked through how we got to the point we did but obviously didn't get to H deeper issues that he needs to work on.


Okay, I thought I had read where you attended a few. His issues may need individual therapy.

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Part of me wants to experiment tonight and give him a kiss goodnight or something affectionate


My suggestion is not to experiment with physical affection, just yet. To me, it would be like running hot and cold. Just work on staying calm and peaceful for a few days, and not swinging from one extreme to the other.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!