Thank you, my marriage was good albeit the usual problems.We were the envy of everyone and we loved each other deeply. It is my first marriage and his second. We were together 12 years and have been married 10 years. We have no kids together but he is my sons only father. He did something similar to this when we dated and cane back. I remember just leaving him alone that time, We moved to CA from Nashville and that is when things went south. We had financial problems, no outside friends or activities so we fought more. My H is stubborn and prideful as well as he has a hard time letting things go such as words said in anger. There is no OP and we are both suffering financially. My H was crazy about me and my son. I feel that he filed out of anger and it was very impulsive. I thought we would be together forever. I also suffered through menopause which made me hard to live with.
As for what I am doing now, I got a job, joined a gym and am considering dating even though my heart is not in it.
judeinla W 52 H 56 bomb dropped 6/17/16 H filed 7/2/16 Still Separated