Thanks Sandi,

Is this a lost cause though? I feel because he's doing this a second time it's not going to turn around like last time.

So what is my action plan?

I completely understand what you're saying about him seeing me with anger. Why would he want to come back to that when in his mind he's doing nothing wrong.

I just need to know the capacity of this OW. I hate that I've done expressive searching and found nothing concrete because either there's nothing or he's covering his tracks very well. I'm sure it's the latter.

I guess I just don't get how he can continue to stay here while talking to someone else. Last time he left.


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