JR! Good to see you brother. I don't blame you for wanting to be away from the house when she moves. I know I'd have a difficult time with it too. No need to subject yourself to it.

On the dog, I'd probably say no. I think that it adds a layer of complexity to an already highly complex situation. Seems like you'd want to each get your own pets and the kids could see them when they rotate bt you and W. Would also be good companionship for y'all during the off times with the kids. Keep in mind, my W has tried to replace me with a cat (she promised to D last fall) so maybe I'm a bit bitter! smile

I know you brother and I know you do give a sh$t, even if you aren't showing it. This is some tough crap you're going through and you've been doing it longer than most of us. Keep pushing forward and I've no doubt all will be good for you. Hang in there JR!

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M11 : T13
D9
BD 5/31/16
In House S until 6/21/17
Divorced 10/5/18