My 2 cents- I think you are absolutely doing the right thing. Staying calm and in control of yourself and your emotions, and staying firm in your boundaries of the financial outcome of this hot mess. Great job, Cadence. And I love the "eating my feelings" stage. I know I went stupid for about 2 weeks on Reese's easter eggs, but didn't really have a name for that stage. I love it. PS- my counselor said it is FINE to eat 16 chocolate eggs in one sitting. Do what works. LOL.
M-60 H-51 M-14 years BD 12/26/16 S 1/1/17
"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton