Yes he's he father of the boys and I wouldn't ever stop him from spending time with him. However, he is cake eating by spending family time together and getting his needs met in that way and getting his other needs met by OW.
If he chooses to be involved with OW then he can by all means have time with the boys but not with me included - meaning spending time with my family - my grandparents for Easter this weekend. Going on my uncles boat with us because in reality if we D he will not come to those things anymore. He will create new things that he does with the boys if that makes sense.
If there is OW in any capacity - especially while I'm pregnant - why should he continue to have his needs met by spending time with our family?
Not arguing just explaining my side or my take on it. Why should he want tomdecided between be and OW if he can have both? Me with the family and spending family time together without treating me as his wife and OW on the side for his other needs
