Originally Posted By: Thornton
Yep. My best thinking is what got me here.

It's throwing me for a loop because the other bomb drops, we both immediately went NC until we reconciled.

This time is so different. If she is leaving, I would prefer if she didn't act nice to me.


That's nice you'd prefer she doesn't act nice to you, but you can't control how she acts towards you.

You have control over how one person acts. That would be you.