I'm not sure what I said that irritated you two, but I'm going to go back and reread the last several pages until maybe it seeps in.
We are trying to encourage change, however you keep resisting. It is more frustration than irritation.
What is different about you today than from when you first arrived here?
Looking back, are you able to track your progress?
What is your objective and what are you doing to achieve it/them?
This journey is filled with choices. For example, out of all the advice posted to you, you chose to look at us being "irritated". How does that help you?
These were some of my objectives: -Get to my happy and healthy place. -Become a better person in all of my relationships.(always a work in progress) -Be accountable -Learn how to forgive -Learn how to set healthy boundaries -Work on detachment -Improve my communication skills. -Yes, save my marriage(but I discovered I had to save myself first)
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
