I just noticed that the Valentine's Day card from her for last year, said, "You're all that I ever hoped for in a husband." And she underlined those words with a pen. I have so many cards and notes from her during the last year of our relationship, telling me we're doing fine. For me, those cards and notes were like report cards, and I believed them. Can you see how this can contribute to me misunderstanding?


M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.