When we decided to reconcile (which i now regret doing so soon), we had a lot of "fail safes" put into place that we both agreed to. Counseling, church, timelines, transparency, etc... If/When she tried this again and wants to come back (which I am 95% sure will happen) I am certainly going to be more cautious and tell her I MUST see real actions/changes before ANYTHING happens. But I guess back to full detachment for the time being and no talks about anything but son. Crazy times indeed.
I mean, how will You be a better, different h? What will you DO differently as a man?
I don't think any woman will return to a marriage SHE LEFT unless
she believes it can be better/different than before. So, how are you showing her that it can be different and better?
Not how you will set conditions for her, or test her, but how you will be a better h to her?
This^^ does NOT mean I blame you for her A. I'm just saying, it has to be a different m.
Something in her needs work and something in the m needs work. As will you.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
