I have been putting up with a lot but I really want it to stop. Again walking the line because I don't want to be controlling.
I did just have to make a quick one as I just got a text from her "Sooo how does this work now....Do I ask if I'm allowed to go to yoga or what? cuz if so I'd like to do a core class tonight" Obviously you can sense the sarcasm as we had a bit of a "disagreement" the other night when she wanted to do an 8-9PM class.
Anyhow back to her text. I sat on it for a bit before she pinged me again.
I came back with "That's fine...I just want you to hold to your promise of transparency and staying in touch with us. I want your help with trust. Cool?" Yes I know I didn't have a consequence as I don't think well on the fly. I did give an expectation based on her past promise. Not that she can't break that...but on short notice at least I presented a reminder. I really think she will go to class...it's the after that I still stress about...whether she comes home right after or finds an excuse.
