When we decided to reconcile (which i now regret doing so soon), we had a lot of "fail safes" put into place that we both agreed to. Counseling, church, timelines, transparency, etc... If/When she tried this again and wants to come back (which I am 95% sure will happen) I am certainly going to be more cautious and tell her I MUST see real actions/changes before ANYTHING happens. But I guess back to full detachment for the time being and no talks about anything but son. Crazy times indeed.
Me: 38 Her: 33 Bomb: 1/6/2017 Separated: 1/10/17 Together: 16 Years Son 12 Years Old She and Son still at the house Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17
