Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
We went to Retrovaille, had a break through and then his mom was sick and BOOM,piecing was over. I don't mean consciously over. But In hindsight...which is 20-20 I am not positive H has ever sought help for something apart from me. Nothing individual....but God knows I have and will.


25,

Sometimes hindsight is 20-20 and sometimes it takes more bumps, trips and stumbles to shed more light to make things more visible. Clarity is hard to come by when you're in it, but when the fog of illusion is gone it's a lot easier to see.

My piecing with my W 4 years ago lead me to a point where we were both comfortable and then full stop. You think you've got it. Things are generally good, but I'm learning that generally good just ain't nothing. Got to be working on things all the time.

I wish you peace in your journey through this.

Trying


Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17