Because we had discussed it 3 days ago when we were reconciling
Oh dear sellout, take it from me, you don't "reconcile" for 3 days. Maybe there was an overture or expressed regret or an insight and breakthrough...or some of all or all of those...
but a real reconciliation takes so much work, and time and a lot of piecing. That may still happen, but you need to be less reactive to her, and not act as if she's crazy to not bite. And try not to deliberately bait her to see if she suddenly slaps her ofrehead to say "OMG I'm hurting my son! I'll stop seeing OM".
That ^^ will not happen - Not saying no recon will, but the Lightning strike realization, will not happen because of anything you say.
about how lawyers are a scam, in cahoots together, slimy, etc... I'm a L and I don't see this^^ as very accurate. It is like saying the guy on the corner saying he's Jesus, and labeling all pastors as shams.
Just don't get a guy who advertises for "dirt cheap & fast", etc. OR talks a great game about how you'll "GET EVERYTHING/HER" or how "its gonna cost you a fortune but hey lets' bill $$ for now!"
I am a lawyer and I interviewed 4 attorneys before hiring one. It's hard.
It was a relevant conversation at the time for exit strategy purposes and I wanted to briefly touch on that for the sake of timing...
I don't think you are hearing me/us. I'm not buying this^^ as the reason underneath the justifications. Dig deep or at least learn from the interchange
From what I see and gather from her, she isnt happy and not 100% convinced this is what she wants. ' So - maybe if you try to make her feel guilty and crappy about herself as a mom, she'll run back to you...Sellout, think this out. She's with OM b/c she likes how he makes her feel about herself.
She even said she was be obstinate with OM and "you have no idea what is going on in my mind"...WELL THATS AN UNDERSTATEMENT!!!
So, stop all the guesswork. Sellout, what do you thnk would be different if you two were to reconcile?
Because the m you have right now, is the one she left.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
