First, I'm sorry for the pain you are experiencing and I know you are in a lot of pain.
As to this text thread ---so you began the text series about your son and Easter.
Then you brought up a totally unrelated topic - i.e. you changing the L you have, which is none of her business. Why did you tell her? Why has she ever heard a VM from him?
My guess is that you wanted to make yourself look reasonable and not vindictive, but this is probably not going to be believed AND it's so not relevant to Easter and your son.
NEXT you brought up a loaded topic about your son...
To her it probably looked as if you are trying to guilt her about your son and how HER actions (and no one else's) are hurting him.
Yes I think you were trying to engage her, first in a L selection of yours that is not in her sandbox,
and 2nd in her mind, even if you don't mean to consciously, you are blaming her for pain you think son is or WILL feel in the future.
She pretty much tells you in her last comments how she saw it.
I kind of hate that I see it the same way she does, but as to this text convo, I do.
Sorry buddy
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