"what if he IS happier and what if he DOES live well and what if he NEVER regrets this..."???"
I would not want to bet on that, in fact I would take the bet and give you odds on the other side of the bet. Switching partners without doing any work is a recipe for disaster.
If it was so easy then the second marriage divorce rates would not be higher than the first time marriage divorce rates.( and third time marriages(divorce rates) even higher than that.
My Ego sure likes to hear this^^.
That is another mistake I (yes ME) made - when we reconciled,
despite his mothers illness - OR Because of it, why didn't I more strongly urge him to seek T?
We went to Retrovaille, had a break through and then his mom was sick and BOOM,
piecing was over. I don't mean consciously over. But In hindsight...which is 20-20
I am not positive H has ever sought help for something apart from me. Nothing individual....but God knows I have and will.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
