Separated In Process of Divorce (Anniversary)

[sellout]

I want to see if anyone can decipher a series of texts that were sent this morning between my wife and I...keep in mind, she WANTS the divorce and is STILL seeing other man. With that in mind please see below and let me know your thoughts... I will put out sons name in (***) to protect identity... I guess I just don't understand why she is deflecting and not wanting to talk about the elephant in the room... Bear in mind 3 days ago she wanted 100% to work on the marriage and broke it off with OM. Now she doesn't even want to talk to me?!?


ME: I don't know if (***) mentioned this to you so I will. I have Friday off for Good Friday. I would like to pick (***) up today around 5:00 and have him spend the night with me tonight, Friday and Saturday night. Essentially I would have him starting today at 5:00 and drop him back off Sunday morning around 9:00am.

HER: So he's not going to church with you Sunday?

ME: I would like for him to but I thought y'all were going to your moms.

HER: Going to my moms at noon. So y'all can go to the early service. I don't want (***) gone that many days in a row/ around your parents that many days in a row/ away from his things that many days in a row. Can you pick him up tomorrow morning?

ME: Yes, I can pick him up tomorrow morning. I will plan to pick him up at 10:00am. I will then drop him back off Sunday after church around 10:30ish.

ME: Btw- not that it really matters to you I guess, but in all likelihood I'm hiring a different attorney. This one makes me nervous and you even heard the VM he left me. Just need to find out about the retainer refund. The bad new I guess is that it will probably drag the process out even longer. 😏

HER: Ok, I'm going to church too. So I'll let you know what time mine lets out

ME: Ok sounds good. One last thing... the good news in all of this is that I feel we both are finally at a place of peace. With that said, the focus should be on (***) and providing a loving and stable environment for him. I guess the unfortunate part is that while you and I have both started to move on with our lives with others, (***) is caught in the middle/limbo. Perhaps we should look into counseling for him? Thoughts?

HER: I'm done talking to you for the day

HER: It feels like you just want to engage me. And I don't have any desire to talk to you. I'm already looking into counseling. I'll let you know.

ME: Thanks