Also can someone give me a boundary statement for additional transparency regarding texting? Again after being caught at OM's house, she did said that she would be more transparent but I have not asked for her phone or to show me.
I did mess up a bit the other day and mentioned the messenger activity starting after I left the house and continuing until 30 min. before I got home. She of course claims she is on facebook but not messenger on and off throughout the day. Again I know that messenger "Active Now" messages aren't really that reliable. Now that I actually said something, I have noticed that she is on way less during the day than prior to saying anything.
