1) I will not live in an open marriage, if there is any additional communication with OM, then we need to separate. Note: I'm leaving separate open-ended...I likely would not tell her to leave the home but separate in our house for our children's sake. Her parents live close though so that is an option and they are aware of the situation.
2) I will not sit at home with the children at night when you have other options regarding yoga classes, like mornings or when they are in school. I believe it is very important to be there when the children are going to bed.
3) I will work with you on doing everything we can to take care of the children and making sure their needs are above ours.
4) When you are away from the home and, to honor your word of transparency, I request that you stay in touch with me and the children. I do not appreciate being put in the position of making excuses when you disappear for longer than you told us.
