Here Again part 4

[Train]

T0,

Sandi is spot-on. This isn't YOU. It's HIM. And I promise you something: you are hurting now, but down the road, if your H doesn't get the help he desperately needs, he will leave a TRAIL of hurting people. All these "OW"? Pfft. They're NOTHING to him but a short, little ego-boost and/or thrill-ride. Your H won't commit long to any of them. And I'll say it again: ANY woman who's *dumb* enough to screw around with a married man who is threatening to leave his *pregnant* W and not be at the birth of his child is a FOOL. And she will get exactly what she deserves.

Right at the point that you don't even care anymore, they will get their due. And your H will probably be begging you profusely for another chance.

People like him are so predictable.

I hope he gets help sooner rather than later. I hope he can man up. But until he can, sweetheart, you deserve so, so, so, so, SO much better. And I know you feel hopeless right now. Unfortunately, that's just part of it. But you are going to be okay, no matter what. I promise you will.