I'm sorry TO, and I'm dismayed to read that you that are still having these circular convos which are not helping your situation my lovely.

Also have a think about the thought patterns. You are talking yourself into him being done. Yes he feels negative right now - but things can change - we all know that. It can just be hard to see in our own situations.

25 posted on her thread about some things she needed to do. I thought of you. They are simple things - but hard. But I know you can do it...

Step back, focus on you, let go, leave him be. Can you have that as your mantra in coming weeks?

Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus