Thought of one more of my deep blue and it's such a common one I would think for LBS and that is how does the WAS just tap out on the M. I just don't get it and I'll never get it.
I've read a lot on resentment and understand how it's such a killer on R or M. It all makes sense and I'm not discounting it and I know how that's played a huge role in where I am in my M and sitch.
I just have a hard time with the giving up aspect of it and that turns into sharing time with our kids, financial struggles, etc.
As I've indicated in my posts, I'm dealing with my contributions to this, namely, 1) depression, 2) being my own person and not "all work and no play makes jack a dull boy", 3) being assertive, 4) dealing with issues and not hiding from them and a few more. Dealing with these things will only benefit me in my relationships going forward with or without W.
Hope everyone has a Hoppy Easter weekend. :-)
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
