Hi Job ... yes sure just delete that one ... Thanks for answering my questions... you are right... no way to know what he wants . Since I don't see him I have no way to figure out whether he is in replay or depression or withdrawal. I don't know if there is someone in his life or not. Whether he is partying or sleeping early... whether what he says of working a lot is true or not... well, you do know he's not up for being a h or father in any full time way. It's been 3 years and he doesn't bother saying what he does want. My guess is that He's not going to file for D, but he will not do anything to stop you from filing.
What is it you fear about divorcing, given that you are already supporting your kids and you have no mate?
I hope I'm not being too blunt. It's just that I see some similarities in your situation although in my case, h did show interest & called us often. Just from far away.
is this really something you want to keep doing?
anyway I guess knowing will not be of help either. Me and kids are doing well. As I said they rarely ask about him anymore and I try to avoid the subject.
Lana, I deleted the duplicate posting.
I'm delighted to see that the kids are alright. You will be too
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
