Sounds like you are doing well The kids do adjust and mine never ask anything about dad I think although strange , they accept this "new" dad as mostly unavailable
Its hard to know what the MLCer is doing and sometimes we may not know for a while if ever Best to continue taking good care of yourself and your kids
we will get more information as time goes on and when we are ready to know more- hang in
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