This stuff can grind you down and create thought loops. Who knows what goes on in the waywards mind? They sure don't!
Waywards often justify their actions with deflation, projection and blame. Words are easy, words on D forms are largely unimportant until they are shown as lies or rhetoric. Lies on sworn legal forms which can be proved as lies reduce credibility.
I know this, courts are not stupid. They go for he said she said, and largely ignore the mud that's slung. That stuff needs evidence and most likely there isn't any in your WH docs. In essence rebuttal of lies is important. I have a friend who was accused by her WH of taking drugs, an unfit mother, in fact the opposite is true she is a dedicated and loving mother. She took a voluntary drug test as a rebuttal, not once but three times. Asked the court for him to take one. He refused, they ordered and he failed the test!
So start your own document collection, and know that waywards behaving in an entitled way always disclose their waywardness. It just needs calm on your part.
It hurts though and of course this is grief. Your D is moving fast as these things go. Take a breath and let things unfold in time.
As Cadet says you have time.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
