Originally Posted By: Ginger
And no, all women can not just shut off feelings like a light switch. I certainly can't. And those WAW I know didn't. It was years of them saying what they needed, their husbands not doing anything about it, and they protected themselves by detaching because they felt so hopeless.

I just wanted to respond to this really quickly. I will probably respond to other things you said later. This is how I would say that her happiness and love towards me seemed to be over the last 8 months or so.

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70 to 80%?
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M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.