I'm not saying to go nuclear, at all. Why not at least see a lawyer? You don't have to retain them, you need "do" nothing, just tell them the situation and gain some knowledge.
It can be very empowering.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
