Having dinner with my MIL and niece tonight. I do not plan to talk about W at all. Keep having my thoughts wander to W today, trying to step on it when it happens.
Appointment with lawyer is tomorrow. Hopefully he can draft something and I can get her to sign it.
I feel trapped into continuing the support I offered W when she moved out. W basically has no responsibilities and no pressure to find work right now. Even the small amount I'm giving her is enough for her basic needs. In short, I'm continuing to enable her bad decisions.
I feel enough responsibility to not just cut her off. I had proposed that this would continue for six months, but that's just allowing her to live in her fantasy world for that much longer. I'm not a liar, I live by my commitments, and I don't want to change that about myself.