I think any respectable line has already been crossed. Whats next, she's pregnant and she says it's yours?
Love is blind, and you need to let her go before things get any worse. 8 wknds away is a long time for a woman that thinks she's single.
One very important thing tho, you must understand that things happen for a reason, you may not see it now, but this will change you as a man. It will make you stronger and wiser. You just gotta get through the pain.
I had to grow metaphorical testicals cos my XW took them with her on her way out. This new set is a whole lot better than the ones i had before. Never forget that no matter what happens, you can rise like a pheonix from the ashes, the only problem is that you need ashes first.
Yes I know what you mean. She is not on any birth control and IF the test was accurate then she is definitely playing with fire on a couple of different levels. It just makes me sick.
So 8 full weekends away, yes...she will still be coming home at night. So I guess I'm missing your meaning when you say "8 wknds away is a long time for a woman that thinks she's single." Do you think this may be a bit of an awakening for her...a new realization possibly that she will want to turn things around or do you think this will push her away from marriage further? I'm just not following.