Naah, i'm letting it mellow down there. Water restrictions are quite bad here in Cape Town too.
My relationship with the XW is good, amicable, i'm actually drinking a glass of wine with her right now and we're reminiscing about the "good ol days when i first came onto this site".
I've come such a long way. It's not even normal. Still have the house and car, but without work as my contract was not renewed. But i'm taking things slow and seeing what comes up.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.