SO here's an update... XW finally moved out at the end of Jan, literally down the road, as the D agreement stated that our only S had to stay in same school. She has never really got things going with OM1, as he stayed in the other town. She's probably seen him twice or thrice since last March when things went off the rails.
She had a long fling with OM3 for about 8 months and is breaking things off with him, another broken heart - check! She is really missing her best friend, she asks me constantly if we can get back together. But here's the thing with detachment, if you really focus on it, then you go so far that you detach from everything and everyone.
As for my love life, it's still at the bottom of the toilet. What a wasted heart.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
