Gordie, I am having to remind myself that He is working on her, even if I cannot see or feel that He is. I can only hope and pray that your W is hearing the truth and is actually fighting the temptations that were drawing her away from you and your M. I feel that that is the number one problem with these MLC'ers. We all have temptations that are thrown in our path throughout our lives...it is how we react to the temptations that makes or breaks us.

I am an imperfect person trying to save my M to the woman that I love. God knows my heart and I know he has a plan for us all...my problem, like most, is I am a wrestler at heart. I give it to God to take care of and then I wrestle it back from him to try and fix myself. The I repeat that cycle. Once I am able to totally give it to Him and not wrestle it away from him then the true healing can begin.


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
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HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!