It has really helped me in realizing that my children are 50% their mother and I am 50 percent each of my parents, so while we don't care for the ACTIONS of our spouse, we still have to honor the facts of why we are all here.
I like this. It took me a while to come to this given the parental alienation going on. However, the children love her and I wouldn't take that away from them in any form, even though full custody is on the plate if I choose to pursue.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.