Thanks J5K! He is indeed meeting my needs and making me smile. I still have my fears, but I try not to let them get in my way too much.

Which kind of brings me to a dilemma. We are 2 months in which isn't that long. We are pretty serious with eachother in the sense we spend a lot of time together and we are exclusive and all that.

My D9 loves having him around and her first question is usually is "is FF coming over?" D9 still is too fearful to ride a bike, but it is time. So he helped me and she trusts him. Then I grilled dinner and they played hopscotch:). It really got me thinking. After she went to bed, we were talking and he was talking about selling his business and the such and he brought up something about getting his own apartment. It triggered me a little. We haven't had one R talk, future talk, I haven't felt the need. But I would hope he sees us living together in the future. My thing is, for mainly D9's sake, I feel like I need to have a talk. not about us moving in together, but that since she is involved, if there comes a point and he does not see a future with me, I need to know. He doesn't have to plan our future, and it's only 2 months its young, but because of my decision to include D9, I need to know when a point of this not going anywhere is coming.

Is this is a fair talk to have? I don't need to know our future right now, but I need to know when he absolutely doesn't see us in it.

I have one small thing that has been bugging me too. Easter is Sunday and I made it very clear I have no plans for Easter and will be all alone. he has not invited me to Easter dinner. I don't even know if his parents are hosting it or not. it kind of hurts, I haven't really met them yet, and I though an invite would be nice, but I haven't brought it up. Mostly because it sounds pathetic to invite yourself to someone elses Easter dinner. It's just not proper etiquette.

Any opinions would be welcomed on the matter. I am going to IC tomorrow and if I can STFU today, I will try to get her opinion before I have any talk with him.