Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 9

[PsySara]

Still in telemetry waiting to see the cardiologist. So far blood tests show no heart attack which is a HUGE relief. I think maybe the ectopic arrhythmias are the culprit. That is handled with cardiac ablation so not too invasive and does not require a lengthly recovery. I am still waiting to hear from cardio so we can see what's what and move forward.

My WH's cousin has been staying with us for a few weeks on vacation and knows what happened. She is a huge allie of the marriage and said she is appalled at WH's behavior. She confronted him last night about his actions this weekend and how he still appears to not give a crap about his wife. It erupted into an argument and she was texted me last night to not trust my WH's behavior in the hospital, that is likely not genuine. She said he basically blames me for everything and was behaving as if he was not taking my hospitalization seriously. He told my boss he would be at the hospital in 15 minutes but showed up over an hour later. His cousin informed me he was walking around the house sighing like he was put out. He took time to feed the cats, walking around the house doing all and sundry.

Last night she told him he was behaving in an atrocious manner and he babbled on about how he doesn't even like my company, doesn't really love me, no motivation to win me back, etc., He also said I argue too much and am verbally abusive with him. Hmmmm...that sounds a lot like projection. I am not sure what to do at this point. Part of me thinks I need to kick him out so I can be away from him. It is clear now that he does not care about my health or even my life. I definitely will not turn to him for support or help.