25yearsMLC - 10 years later I FILE D

[25yearsmlc]

Random song hit me tonight. A country song, actually.

"I wish you were a better man."

Yes that^^ is true. S30 volunteered unsolicited (& for me, hard to hear again) that his dad is "mentally ill and an a$$ho1e" and apparently h has had little to no contact with our children. Son thinks OW has kids, so that the "our family has been replaced".

I CANNOT believe this, not b/c it's impossible but b/c I CANNOT...h always loved them even when he was a jerk to me.

H Texted the kids the day after Christmas (though he sent money)...That is new, bad behavior.

So to my stbxh I would say "I wish you were a better man."