We actually had a big fight yesterday (about her move out, she basically wants a blank check for funds, I objected. It escalated).
We're back to no communication, barely even talk about D. Probably for the best. Meeting with lawyer on Thursday. Not filing. I hope lawyer has idea about interim parenting plan without D or legal S.
Backing off in general. Whatever happens happens at this point. I know what I want. It's on her to figure out what she does.