Hi Derek,
Sorry you are here, but welcome.
I'm not going to comment right now on what I think is going on with your wife, because I am feeling very negative today and don't want to project my own feelings onto your situation. That said, I'd be VERY skeptical of the excuses she gives for where she is during all that "shopping" time though-does she come home with lots of full shopping bags to show? Just saying, if it seems suspicious, there's usually good reason.
I'll write more later when I'm feeling more optimistic, and offer you some encouragement as you travel this road. But I did want to say hi and welcome, and that you will find some great people here.


M-60 H-51
M-14 years
BD 12/26/16
S 1/1/17

"First the pain, then the rising."
Glennon Doyle Melton