25yearsMLC - 10 years later I FILE D

[25yearsmlc]

I do hope my situation does not get projected onto others.

there are parallels but I know some marriages do get saved and or, fixed. And if a m lasts decently for 20 more years, was DBing a "failure"?? I think not.

I think DBing is about the best program out there. I think without it, my m would have ended in 2007, and though you could argue I should have left then, remember, I'm not doing a "should have" mantra anymore. Besides, I would not be the person I am now. And I like who I am now, better.

Sometimes people would read my situation and see hope in theirs that maybe wasn't there, and I don't want people to see failure in theirs, that might not be.

This^^ is not aimed at anyone in particular, btw.

Vanilla, I'll read your posts several times, I'm sure.

Thank you.