1. Continue with the divorce. We haven't even had our first court date so at a minimum we are 4-5 months out on finalization.
2. Continue (and do a better job of) Detaching.
3. Continue to GAL
4. Prepare myself as though I am 100% done and I am moving on.
5. If/when she ever tries this again and want to work it out, my plan is as follows:
A. Listen to her reasons B. Tell her that I will think about it C. Advise her that I MUST see changes in her actions for a extended period of time. D. If/when I see her changes and they are real and sincere then make a decision if we give it another try.
Thoughts?
That's a reasonable plan. I wouldn't be too concerned with 5 at this time. You need to get yourself to a happy and healthy place on a personal level first, before even entertaining 5.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
