25, I'm so sorry to hear what has happened. I too read your sitch when I first came to the board and like Blu I waited for your update, dreading the worse but hoping fot the best.

You remain an inspiration to me as even having to go through this for a second time you still have the strength to provide us newbies with hope.

I think sometimes people just don't see what is in front of them and instead chase dreams to make themselves happy. I am not surprised that your family have lost respect for your H, especially with the way he treated you when you were unwell and with flaunting the OW.

You sound like DB'ing the first time around has made you a much stronger person this time and I believe that's a place we all want to get to even if we don't save our marriages.

(((25))), keep posting. I appreciate are all your nuggets of wisdom...


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')