One thing I failed to mention is that I have been biding my time. Starting on the 22nd of this month she has 8 straight weekends of yoga certification training. Essentially it is 14 hours days on both Sat and Sun for 8 weeks that she will be out of the house. Leaving at 6AM, driving an hour, 12 hours of training and then another hour back home.
I am wishful that this may serve as an awakening call to her. She claims to want to make no decisions until after this time. Maybe that's her way of keeping me on the hook so to speak but I plan to use this time and dedicate it fully to my boys.
One other thing I should mention is that she may feel a bit trapped in our marriage. She has absolutely no income other that from me. I'm not using that as leverage, only saying that I hope that isn't the one thing that keeps her holding on to me. Her parents live very close to us and have space so she does have another place to stay if push comes to shove.
