I'm sorry and glad to read your story 25. Like others I read your posts and your advice has helped me through some difficult times. Knowing you online has been a gift.

It is sad to read of a reconciliation that didn't sustain in the longer term but I am glad for how good you sound. Many aspects of your story resonated with me. I was also the wife of a commuting, successful man. Not easy.

You have many blessings in your life and you count them. Whilst you will of course mourn the end of your marriage, there are also upsides & you are enjoying those too. Like you, I struggle with the great rift. XH and I have no contact, and whilst contact wouldn't really work for me given all circumstances, I don't like that there is a chasm there, where there was once a R. I don't know the answer to that.

From the bottom of my heart I wish you well and I hope you'll keep posting to share your journey.

Xxx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus