It takes two to make it work (pt. 6)

[SBJ]

Thanks Bird...daily inspiration or not, there is only so much humanly possible for us to do. We seem to put up with this batchitcrazy stuff and hold out hope that some way our spouses will return to reality, but what if this is their new reality?

Just got a call from the W saying that her attorney called her and said that he had not heard back from mine. She was basically asking me if I'd hurry up and get my attorney to finish up the changes to the D paperwork so that we can get them signed.

Her funny, self-serving comment was..."I know you think I'm rushing this, but it has been 6 months...and nothing has changed." Again letting me know that her feelings have not changed and that I simply need to bite the bullet and finalize the divorce. She also said that this is costing her money that she could be spending on the kids. I guess that is her way of making me feel guilty and bending to her desires.

I can only tell her that I understand how she feels so much. I don't understand. I know they aren't in their right mind, but I don't understand. I don't understand how someone can be so selfish. I don't understand how someone could treat someone with such disrespect.

As I said earlier...there are very few things I know and only a few that I can control, and the rest is in God's hands.